Nothing says weekend like a stack of fluffy vegan blueberry pancakes, especially if they happen to be studded with jammy blueberries! This is the kind of breakfast I would like as my wedding day treat, but as the wedding is happening fairly early (for me đ ), I think I will have to settle for a bowl of overnight oats.
If you follow us on Instagram or Facebook, you’ve probably heard that we, Sir Duncan and I, gave notice to marry in the local registry office last weekend and are finally tying the knot in just over a month’s time! We’ve been together for almost 9 years now and as we are both slightly reluctant newlyweds, we procrastinated a fair bit…To our respective parents’ dismay…
I promised myself the wedding will be small and stress-free, but I can feel the pull of wedding fever a little more than I expected. I was planning on wearing one of the dresses I already own, but now that I’ve decided to see whether I can find something more seasonally appropriate (I’m still holding out for proper summery weather by the time July comes around), I have stepped into the completely unfamiliar territory of wedding paraphernalia. I did not realise how much you can easily spend on a wedding dress, let alone shoes and all the other things that are deemed ‘essential’.
Luckily for me, I’m merely after an elegant cocktail dress, but every time I look for dresses online, the minute Google sniffs the word ‘wedding’, it presents me with artfully shot, beautifully cascading wedding gowns modelled by a bevy of flawless beauties that cost hundreds if not thousands of pounds… And I suddenly find myself wanting one just like that, against my better judgement. It’s so hard not to be affected by societal norms sometimes.
We’ve decided to do a very small, informal ceremony now and a proper reception at a later date, so that we can ensure that our closest families, who happen to live at opposite ends of the globe, can attend and finally meet! After the ceremony, we will take our dear witnesses for lunch, coffee and cake and as long as the sun is shining, it should be a perfect day.
Even though a piece of paper doesn’t really change our commitment to each other, getting married feels strangely grown up (something we have clearly resisted for a long time…) and the prospect of calling each other husband and wife sounds hilarious and not like us at all. Yup, this is how mature we both are, but being able to laugh at the same stuff is still priceless… So I think we are totally worth each other.